Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps you embrace your thoughts and feelings instead of fighting them. The goal is to live a fulfilling life based on your values, even in the presence of discomfort. 💖
1. Acceptance 🌼
What is Acceptance?
Acceptance means acknowledging your thoughts and feelings without judgment. It allows you to experience them without letting them control your actions.
Exercise:
Write down a thought or feeling you’ve been struggling with recently.
Next to it, write, “I accept that I am feeling this way.”
Example:
Thought/Feeling: "I feel anxious about my health."
Acceptance Statement: "I accept that I am feeling anxious about my health."
2. Cognitive Defusion 💭
What is Cognitive Defusion?
Cognitive defusion techniques help you separate yourself from your thoughts, seeing them as mere words instead of truths.
Exercise:
Identify an anxious thought you frequently have.
Write it down and then create a defusion phrase.
Example:
Anxious Thought: "I will get sick."
Defusion Phrase: "I notice I am having the thought, 'I will get sick.'"
3. Mindfulness 🌈
What is Mindfulness?
Mindfulness means being present in the moment and fully engaged with your surroundings and feelings.
Exercise:
Take a moment to breathe deeply and focus on your breath.
Write down three things you notice around you right now.
Example:
The sound of birds chirping.
The feeling of the chair supporting me.
The warmth of the sunlight on my skin.
4. Self-as-Context
What is Self-as-Context?
This principle helps you view yourself as the observer of your thoughts and feelings rather than being defined by them.
Exercise:
Reflect on a recent situation where you felt overwhelmed.
Write down how you can observe that experience without judgment.
Example:
Situation: I felt anxious during a family gathering.
Observation: "I can notice my anxiety without letting it define my experience."
5. Values Clarification 💖
What are Values?
Values are the principles that guide your actions and give your life meaning.
Exercise:
List three core values that are important to you.
Think of one action you can take this week that aligns with each value.
Example:
Value 1: Family
Action: Plan a dinner with my family.
Value 2: Health
Action: Go for a 30-minute walk three times this week.
Value 3: Creativity
Action: Dedicate an hour to painting this weekend.
6. Committed Action 🌻
What is Committed Action?
Committed action involves setting goals based on your values and taking steps to achieve them.
Exercise:
Write down one specific goal that aligns with your values.
List three actionable steps to reach that goal.
Example:
Goal: Improve my mental health.
Step 1: Practice mindfulness for 10 minutes daily.
Step 2: Attend a yoga class once a week.
Step 3: Schedule a monthly outing with friends.
Reflection and Notes ✨
How do you feel after completing this worksheet?
What will you take away from this exercise?
Reminder:
It’s okay to feel anxious or uncertain at times. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey. Embrace your feelings, and take steps toward a fulfilling life based on your values!